Nobody decided.
It just became yours.
the year you offered
the year they assumed
this year
The first year, you offered. The second year, they assumed. By the third it was a tradition, and a tradition never checks your calendar.
You have the big table and the roasting pan. So the plan gets made around you, and then it lands on you.
The cooking is the part everyone can see. The heavier part is a yes you gave once, which quietly became a job.
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You know the first half of this story.
what lands
The chat decides before you’ve read it.
the pause
what they’re really asking
“Can you keep carrying this, so the rest of us don’t have to decide?”
here is the line
what you send
after
This half is still blank.
Every edition of The Line runs the whole arc. The second half is the part nobody hands you.
Answer before the plan sets.
Every weekday morning, The Line takes one real moment like this, names the pattern underneath it, and gives you the words to hold the line.